Coffee or Tea? and Wax Fruit or Real Fruit? are not the same. Coffee or Tea? is offering you a choice. Wax Fruit or Real Fruit? is not offering you a choice. It is asking whether what you are looking at now is real fruit or a fake. There is no choice. If what you are looking at is a fake, there is no reason why there should be any real fruit somewhere else, for you to choose. If there seems to be, you would have to examine it. It may also be a fake. It may be that all the fruit everywhere, including Heaven, is a fake. In that case there is no choice.
The "fruit" is the fruit of life, of being born. Body and Mind.
The body and mind that you are looking at and which you call your own (or maybe yours on loan) is it real? Or is it a mass of inconvenience and suffering; painful birth, difficult early years when you are wholly dependent on others, ill health, old age (if it lasts that long), and unwanted death (or if wanted, only because the suffering becomes great enough).
Real or fake? Desirable or undesirable.
What did Buddha say about mind and body (= nama-rupa = the five groups of existence)?
"Whatever there is of material shape, feeling, perception, the habitual (latent) tendencies, consciousness - he (the wise man) considers these things as impermanent, as suffering, as a disease, as an imposthume, as a dart, as a misfortune, as an affliction, as alien, as decay, empty, not-self."
And having seen this, what should he do?
"He turns his mind from these things; and when he has turned his mind from these things he focuses his mind on the deathless element, thinking: ‘This is the real, this the excellent, that is to say the tranquillising of all the activities, the casting out of all clinging, the destruction of craving, dispassion, stopping, Nibbāna."
Source: Mahāmālunkyasutta of Majjhima Nikāya.
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